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Awesome Mail : English Woman who requested a response from Indian Men.

Posted by @ B H i on August 20, 2006

This letter was written in response to an article:

Dear Editor:

I’m sorry but I would like to challenge some of your Indian male readers.
I am a White female who is engaged to an Indian male, good-looking, educated and loving.
I just don’t understand a lot of Indian female’s attitudes about our relationship.

My man decided he wanted me because the pickings amongst Indian women were slim to none.
As he said they were either too fat, too loud, too mean, too argumentative, too needy, too materialistic or carrying too much excess baggage.

Before I became engaged, whenever I went out I was constantly approached by Indian men, willing to wine and dine me and give me the world.

If Indian women are so up in arms about us being with their men, why don’t they look at themselves and make some changes.

I am tired of the dirty looks I get and snide remarks when we’re out in public.

I would like to hear from some Indian men about why we white women are so appealing and coveted by them.
Bryant Gumbel just left his wife of 26 years for one of us.
Charles Barkley, Scottie Pippen, the model Tyson Beckford, Montell Williams, Quincy Jones, James Earl Jones, Harry Belafonte, Sydney Poitier, Kofi Anan, Cuba Gooding Jr., Don Cornelius, Berry Gordy, Billy Blanks, Larry Fishburne, Wesley Snipes…I could go on and on.

But, right now, I’m a little angry and that is why I wrote this so hurriedly.

Don’t be mad with us White women because so many of your men want us.
Get your acts together and learn from us and we may lead you to treat your men better.
If I’m wrong, Indian men, let me know.

Disgusted White Girl,
Somewhere in VA.


The Response 🙂

Dear Editor:

I would like to respond to the letter written by A Disgusted White Girl.

Let me start by saying that I am a 28-year old Indian man.
I graduated from one of the most prestigious universities in Atlanta, Georgia with a Bachelor of Arts Degree in Business Management.

I have a good job at a major corporation and have recently purchased a house.
So, I consider myself to be among the ranks of successful Non-White men.

I will not use my precious time to slander white people.
I just want to set the record straight of why Indian men date white women.

Back in the day, one of the biggest reasons why Indian men dated white women was because they were considered easy.
The Indian girls in my neighborhood were raised traditionally.
They were very strict about when they lost their virginity and who they lost it to.
Because of our impatience to wait, brothers would look for someone who would give it up
easy without too much hassle. So, they turned to the white girls.

Nowadays, in my opinion, a lot of Indian males date white women because they are docile and easy to control.
A lot of Indian men, because of insecurities, fears, and overall weaknesses, have become intimidated by the strength of our Indian women.

We are afraid that our woman will be more successful than us, make more money than us, drive nicer cars and own bigger houses.

Because of this fear, many Indian men look for a more docile woman.
Someone we can control. I have talked to numerous Indian men and they continuously comment on how easy it is to control and walk over their

white women.

I just want to set the record straight. I want A Disgusted White Girl to know that not all successful Indian men date white women.

Non-Whites like Ahmad Rashad, Denzel Washington, Michael Jordan, Morris Chestn! ut, Will Smith, Blair Underwood, Kenneth ‘Babyface’ Edmonds, Samuel L. Jackson, and Chris Rock all married strong Non-White women.

And, to flip the script, there are numerous white men, in and out of the spot light, who openly or secretly desire Non-White women over white women.

Ted Danson, Robert DeNiro, and David Bowie to name a few. I just don’t want the ‘Disgusted White Girl’ to be misinformed.

Stop thinking that because you are white that you are some type of goddess.
Remember, when Non-White Egyptian Queens like Hatsepshut and Nitorcris were ruling Dynasties and armies of men in Egypt, you were over in the caves of

Europe eating raw meat and beating each other over the head with clubs.
Read your history! It was the Non-White woman that taught you how to cook and season your food.
It was the Non-White woman that taught you how to raise your children.
It was Non-White women who were breastfeeding and raising your babies during slavery.
It is the Non-White woman that had to endure watching their fathers, husbands, and children beaten, killed, and thrown in jail.

Indian women were born with two strikes against them: being Non-White and being a woman.
And, through all this, Still They Rise!

It is because of the Indian women’s strength, elegance, power, love and beauty that I could never date anyone except my Indian Queen.

It is not just the outer beauty that captivates and draws me to them.
It is not the fact that they come in all shapes, sizes, colours and shades that I love them.
Their inner beauty is what I find most appealing about Indian women.
Their strong spirit, loving and nurturing souls, their integrity, their ability to overcome great obstacles, their willingness to stand for what they believe in, and their determination to succeed and reach their highest potential while enduring great pain and suffering is why I have fallen in love with Indian women.

I honestly believe that your anger is geared more toward jealousy and envy than snotty looks.
If this were not so, then why do you continuously go to tanning salons to darken your skin.
If you are so proud to be white, then why don’t you just be happy with your pale skin?
Why do you continue to inject your lips, hips, and breasts with unnatural and dangerous substances so you can look fuller and more voluptuous?

I think that your anger is really a result of you wanting to have what the Non-White woman has.

BOTTOM LINE: If I were looking for a docile woman, someone I can walk over and control, I would give you a call.
But, unfortunately, I am looking for a Virtuous Woman.
Someone that can be a good wife and mother to my children.
Someone who can be my best friend and understand my struggles.
I am looking for a soul mate and; unfortunately, you do not and CANNOT fit the bill.

No offense taken, none given.

Indian Royalty.


30 Responses to “Awesome Mail : English Woman who requested a response from Indian Men.”

  1. raga saga said

    I disagree with Indian Royality. I’m an indian male, and the reason is probably because white girls treat us like normal people and don’t have an “attitude” or act like they “own” us. I find the other ethnic races ie: hispanics and blacks have a similar “attitude” to the indian girls. It’s just annoying and some people don’t want to have to deal with it.

  2. Ashley said

    OK. So, I have been searching all over the internet for answers and i can’t find it. So maybe one of you can help me. I have fallen in love with and indian guy. We treat eachother as equals. I love him, he loves me. He is sweet, caring, the most amazing guy i have ever dated. We are just now beginning to talk about marriage. I MUST switch to his religion, Learn the religion, give up my “white” lifestyle, and somehow become an indian woman. I am so scared to give up everything i know and love for him although i love him dearly. I guess what i am asking is.. what am i getting myself into? He hasn’t told his parents or his brother. He has only told his close friends. His parents are actually looking for him a wife in India. I am so scared that if his family disagrees he will choose them over me. I know that’s what he was raised to do, but I love him and i am willing to give up being “me” Am i doing the right thing? Will it be worth it?

  3. Clear Eyed said


    For what it’s worth here is my advice (BTW I’m originally from India and I’m male):

    1. You MUST NOT switch to his religion just because that is what is expected of you if you marry this guy. If you sense pressure – covert or overt – something is wrong with this relationship. Change your religion only if your heart finds a deeper connection to the Divine in the new religion. Not for any other reason. If he comes from a traditional family – it appears so from your description – chances are his family will neither understand you nor approve of you. Since this is is circa 2006 and not 1906 he does not HAVE to live with his family. His family will come to terms with it in time. If the two of you truly love each other you will find a way to get past your religious differences. Ironically, the hardest and the most enlightened way to do it requires jettisoning the dogma of your individual religious traditions and forming a direct relationship with the Divine.

    2. It would be very naive of you to assume that you can suddenly, somehow stop being a mythical ‘white woman’ and metamorphose into ‘a mythical ‘Indian woman.’ Disaster and anguish lie that way.

    3. If he loves you he can’t choose his family over you. That’s a false choice these days. Look, he chooses his family he loses you, right? On the other hand he chooses you, he doesn’t really lose his family – that happens in Bollywood films only. There might be some unpleasantness for some time, however, sooner or later his family is going to want to reconnect with their son.

    4. If the two of you are to have a future together he needs to grow up fast and start acing like a mature, responsible adult. He needs to tell his parents to stop looking for a wife for him ASAP. If the two of you are talking about marriage then he needs to inform his family that he has chosen his bride. There will be one of two outcomes at that point. His family will start talking about wedding dates. Or they will start screaming. If the latter happens he tells them he will speak with them again once they stop screaming.

    5. You have two wedding ceremonies – one in your tradition and one in his. That could be loads of fun.

    6. Get over your fears and look at this situation with as much clarity as you can bring to it. You’re not a Bollywood heroine pining for a lover who has to choose between his family and his love.

    Best wishes,

  4. sunita said

    Dear Clear Eyed:

    I love everything you have just said. Everything you said sounds like the ultimate Indian man that I have been looking for and have yet to find. I mean this in all sincerity “Are you single?”. If not where can I find someone just like you.

  5. Clear Eyed said

    Hi Sunita,

    Thank you for the high compliment. I’m not sure my wife will endorse it whole-heartedly. We’ve been married for 13 years now. Like any other marriage there’s been many ups and downs. And that’s how I think it usually is. The “And they lived happily ever after” line is how fairytales normally end.

    I’ll keep an eye out for someone like me … for you 😉

    I wish you joy.

  6. bonnie said

    I am white and have dated several indian men. I am attracted to educated, family oriented, good natured men, and have found these qualities in Indian men. I would love to find an Indian guy who would love to settle down with me. I think Indian women are beautiful. There are beautiful women on the inside and outside, and Asia has enough men for white and Indian women.

  7. asj said

    I am a UK born indian guy, and i have dated asain girls and white women, and from my experience they have all been good. Nevertheless i have found white women to be more confident and open. Really race should not be an issue, you should like someone for what they are, regardless what race they are. So all in all be true to yourself, be yourself, not what other want of you.

    peace out

  8. Lisa said

    I am a white woman of British heritage. I am thin with very dark hair, white skin and blue eyes. But that wasn’t enough. My Indian guy dumped me for a fat blonde woman, of white skin and blue eyes. Is it ironic that he ended up marrying a spitting image of his fetish, one I knew about long ago?

    Now I know how it feels to be an Indian woman who loses her man to someone who is considered fairer than herself.

  9. I am an American born male of Indian descent and I believe that white women may be more attractive to some Indian ment because they are exotic, less hairy, and often have less reservations about sex and have less mental baggage.

    I’ve dated white and Indian women and I I take each person on a case by case. My comments are just general.

  10. abundantsupply said

    sorry to burst Indian Royalty’s bubble, but although I appreciate and have much respect for your sentiment, Indian women do not need defending. They are in high demand, worldwide ( From my brief stint of 10 days in London (i’m from DC, USA, ove every indina girl that turned my head, 9 out of 10 were with some Englishman.
    Indian women don’t need defending… they’re the new hot commodity it seems… to the point that it makes me a bit sick to my stomach. Not because I oppose interraceial couplings (I’ve been madly in love with my ex, who is a white, American WASP, for the last couple years) I’m still not cool with this one-sided exoticization of Indian women. Trust me, Indian Roaylty, though you think you are roylaty, or precisely why… Indian women are leaving the fold by the dozens.
    DisgustedWhiteGirl… don’t take heed. Love your man, and don’t buy into the double standards.

  11. Guy Gentle said

    Indian Royalty’s reaction is over-reaction, eh?

    He has a genuine point, but then he has blown it out of proportion (in his over-sarcastic, over-sentimental and over-expressive reaction).
    I think he is taken it too personally or may be wanted to show up his smartness/talent to rejoice himself.

    Coming to the Disgusted White girl, she might have said that jovially in a light hearted mood or may be in a crazy mood.
    Indian guys and the white girls very well know that most of the Indian guys like the white meat, but only till pounding the meat.
    May not for a long lasting trustworthy relationship!

    And ofcourse, there are some white women too, who are very genuine & dependable for a sustainable relationship, but they are much fewer in number compared to their Indian counterparts. But that doesn’t again make Indian women any superior to their white counterparts because it is not that the Indian women are intrinsically superior but because Indian women have that cultutal edge; they have been conditioned that way in the Indian culture….if not directly, atleast indirectly by the lingering influences of their parentage or ancestral cultures).

    By the way, I’m an Indian too.

    Guy Gentle (Indian Royalty2)

  12. Genuine Indian said

    I’ve dated non-white girls as they fit my budget easily; not that I don’t have enough to afford white women but they are fairly expensive to handle.

    That said – White women are gifted with snowy beauty and this makes them the center of attraction.

    Bottomline: Inner beauty is the basis of long term relationships, as the outer one is bound to Nature’s timeline!

  13. Jen said

    im white girl. and i can’t understand what the fuss is, but then again, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

    anyway, i prefer asian/middle eastern men, =P they’re
    manner is better than white guys, and they are strikter with things.

    anyway, peace!

  14. jennyc said

    Mr. “Indian Royalty” and the angry white chick need to get their facts straight…the Caucasian or “white” race is defined as “relating to a broad division of humankind covering peoples from Europe, Western Asia, the Indian subcontinent and parts of North Africa” or “white-skinned; of European origin” or “relating to the region of the Caucasus in SE Europe”.

  15. a said


    asia certainly has enough men/women/children for the whole world…nice comment heheh

  16. Renu S said

    I’m a indian woman… and im strong.. sometimes I doubt myself, but I know my heritage and I know the struggles all woman have been through, this knowledge will always keep me going!

  17. Vick said

    i am a indian guy and here in abby
    we all think white girls r easy to
    get so we might as well fuck em
    and one day wee all stick to our culture
    and go for tht indian girl because
    in the end we get whats best,,, by the way
    i agree wit u renu s, ur an amazing

  18. Renu S said

    I also like taking it in the ass, I know this isnt part of my culture but I love it, it feels like I’m taking a shit, but its just a different rush, how wonderful.

  19. Vick said

    thatsss the good thing about
    us indian boysss we cannn
    fuck wherever we wanntt
    n we’l just be called pimps:)

  20. Jazz said

    i am a good indian boy and sumtimes
    i think i am cool becuase
    i fuck the white woman of my
    they very hott i like ilike
    but i jus fuck rounddd one day i be
    with my indian princesss:):)

  21. Vick S said

    we keep it real.

  22. Emily said

    Hey calm down there tiger…im sure we can all agree that mexican woman (which would be me) r by far the hottest and come on i cant lie the most itelligant..and we r the best in bed…lol..

  23. Whitney said

    I don’t even know how to comment on this, other than to say that I can’t believe some of you people still exist…

  24. ani said

    This goes to disgusted white girl. I am Indian and I take offense to what you have said. Not all our men what your pasty sick palefaced ass…so get off your white horse! And also, white girls are whores and so many men have said that of all nationalities…good luck with your inlaws…I bet that are going to be so proud that their son chose a pink pale whoremonger.

  25. ani said

    btw-your white men just die over our women…take a look hun
    not everyone wants a white girl

  26. debs said

    omg i can’t believe some of these comments, does it matter the colour we r, we all av red blood,get over ur selfs.


    my my my………its not really nice to pour this way to one another………lets show love & take whomever loves us with alot of blessings and a pintch of humility. Life is short…so make love not war.

    White or Indian man…….thats not it……..its all in the chemistry & what does the heart says through the eyes.
    Love & Blessings…..chitranggi:)

  28. Roy said

    I live in India and I am 33. I would not make a choice by knowing, caste, colour or religion. I would choose someone if she is like minded and have similar outlook for life and have kind of similar interests.

    No one choses another over someone. It is a personal choice. Not all white women fancy me, be they be Indian white or western.

    On your lines, Miss Disgusted White Girl “Before I became engaged, whenever I went out I was constantly approached by Indian men, willing to wine and dine me and give me the world.”

    Yes, any Indian men who are not having much diversed exposure of meeting women from different culture would fancy a white women or beautiful and white women and will like to sleep with her but would not like to accept her as their wife as she is not from his community. These are the narrow mind type guys and yes ofcourse some out of these will go so much mad behind the white skin that they will almost become slave to the beauty.

    I have met many Indian women and what that Disgusted White Girl wrote was very much true. “My man decided he wanted me because the pickings amongst Indian women were slim to none.
    As he said they were either too fat, too loud, too mean, too argumentative, too needy, too materialistic or carrying too much excess baggage.” & again she wrote “If Indian women are so up in arms about us being with their men, why don’t they look at themselves and make some changes.”

    I met many Indian women who would not carry themselves or not do work out as they are already married so what’s the use, whom arey they going to trap;they even do not care if they are stinking inside mouth or inside their bodies or seldome care to clean their inside secret parts. Sometimes Indian men would doubt his wife, if she is carrying herself too much well then he might ask, “whom do you want to show it to now!” It is the culture and the mind set you, see…..

    Yes, “Disgusted White Girl” the women envy you in India coz you might seem pretier than them and you have snatched their peice of cake. It could be an ego or could be the non approval of your culture and open mindedness etc.

    And who called the white girls whore?? I really do not appreciate it.The Indian men and women are more hypocrite, even if they would sleep around they would not let anyone know about it and pretend to be pure of such things.

    Everyone in this world wants love but no one knows what it is and what is its science of working. Loyalty does not mean one sexual relationship but rather being complete in one relationship that sex becomes a door to the higher and if there is a change in partner for a while it should not have much meaning than ur partner shaking hands with someone else! I have just expressed my thoughts, no offense on anyone’s belief. I beleive in freedom and I am non possessive lover.

    World’s high divorce rate is proving that marriage is an unnatural phenomenon existing only amongst the human spicies. Women are educated now and in their own control racing with men. Earlier it was not so, Indian women were suppressed and under controll hence the men dominated and the women followed. Men used to go to prostitutes while having a wife at home and sometimes were allowed to keep more women, now women are equally powerful then can hire males, they won’t tolerate male’s dominance. Nature made men for sowing seeds and women to bear children but things were corrupted by religions, politics and human ego and meanness or else the male female relationship is bliss but wrong conditioning, wrong beliefs about love, relationship, sex has brought this world where it has arrived….Be it be Indian women or western, the women will be over powering the men soon. And yes now even Indian women are injecting chemicals to make thier body voluptous so do not blame the white, Mr.Indian Royalty. It is not now the fight of white or black…The days are over. The fight is amongst the two race now…The Men and the Women.

    “Indian Royalty” & “Digusted White Girl” let us not fight over or write over colour, religions, races etc. If there are colours or religions and races in the world then they are just two The Male & The Female rest are all out come of their massive or individual psychology.

    Let’s commune in love and with life.


  29. Roy said

    hey any white women wants to date me?… add me on yahoo as openmindedchap wink!

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